Being poly, it’s difficult to explain the situation sometimes. (In our case, Sir and I don’t live together, though, and we’re an N-quad.) But people who are poly are, frankly, commonly just as boring as monogamous couples. It’s about what’s in the heart, not necessarily about sex or freaky kinky stuff.
http://theweek.com/articles/533600/what-life-like-polyamorous-family
Great article on polyamory.