BDSM vs. Abuse

Friend and fellow writer Tara Rose has a great blog post today, in the wake of the premier of the trailer for 50 Shades of Grey, that details the differences between healthy, consensual BDSM and abuse. (Complete with nifty graphics for those who are visual learners. 🙂  ) http://www.tararoseromanceauthor.com/2014/07/bdsm-versus-abuse-do-you-understand.html

Well, some people just refuse to hear the truth.

A follow-up from my blog post yesterday where I took on yet another radical feminist who insists that all BDSM is abuse, regardless of consent or not. Apparently, the blogger doesn’t like hearing the truth, that the examples they used in their blog were completely unrealistic and unrepresentative of the majority of people who practice … Read More

Yet another one where I take on radical feminists’ views about BDSM.

Oh, look. Someone on the Interwebz is having a butthurt cow about consensual BDSM practices. It’s an older article, but one I was only pointed toward just today. *sigh* http://liberationcollective.wordpress.com/2013/01/27/bdsm-is-violence-against-women Here’s my response to them, because I seriously doubt they’ll let my comment stand, because, idunno, LOGIC HURTZ. *Grrrr.*

Last call for Writers Lab!

Don’t forget registration closes Tuesday, 6/24 for Writers Lab! (Mercury retrograde strikes again, and a website snafu cropped up that might have prevented some from registering, so they’ve extended it two days.) http://www.writerslab.net/ Open to writers and readers! If you’re wanting to learn more about BDSM in a safe, non-threatening environment, this is the perfect weekend … Read More

Registration for Writers Lab closes June 22!

UPDATE: Registration closes Sunday, June 22, so if you’ve been holding off, it’s time to get your registration in. If you have any questions about this, you can contact the event coordinators at: [email protected] Friends of mine who run the Florida Power Exchange contest are putting on a new series of seminars geared toward educating … Read More

Consensual non-consent, rape play, and stay the hell out of my bedroom.

Cara Sutra has THE best blog I’ve ever read about summarizing CNC (consensual non-consent play, AKA rape play) in BDSM. DEFINITELY a must-read. You can take my rape fantasy when you non-consensually prise it from my kink dependent mind. The point being many of us in BDSM ENJOY this kind of play. Speaking to the … Read More

Want to learn about BDSM? Writers Lab is for you.

UPDATE: Registration closes Sunday, June 22, so if you’ve been holding off, it’s time to get your registration in. If you have any questions about this, you can contact the event coordinators at: [email protected] Friends of mine who run the Florida Power Exchange contest are putting on a new series of seminars geared toward educating … Read More