Whip Me, Beat Me, Make Me Write Hot Sex: A Writer’s Guide to BDSM Basics…and For Those Who Are Curious.

Second Edition. Revised and Expanded, March 2021. And now available for the first time in print!

(NON-FICTION, writing tutorial, BDSM 101 guide)

Content Warning: Non-fiction, contains subject matter and language of a sexual nature. May offend some readers.

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In this how-to guide for writers, USA Today Bestselling Author Tymber Dalton (aka Lesli Richardson) shares information she’s learned during her first-hand experience in the BDSM lifestyle. (Also good for people curious about the lifestyle.)

Learn the basics about relationship dynamics, toys, tools, terminology, and more. Includes style guide tips for writers and a handy list of references to start you on your research.